How To Win An Argument Without Making Enemies

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  • Clar
    Clar  3 hours back

    Great stuff

    • Sanshia Moonsany
      Sanshia Moonsany  8 hours back

      Trevor Noah, the next president

      • NJOMANE The knowledge
        NJOMANE The knowledge  8 hours back

        The first positive comments video of TRAVOR I habe seen so far but really I live it

        • Jurij Fedorov
          Jurij Fedorov  10 hours back

          Trevor is not really debating right. He just doesn't get mad because he never engages in true debates. He fires off some jokes and asks a few critical questions. Then he states some progressive points and the audience claps. He never really dares to dive into any topic or debate. It's not really needed on his show. He knows his audience doesn't really seek debates or other opinions. He just needs to say a few things and that will convince his whole audience. The other side doesn't matter. The other side could have a great point and still Trevor would easily win the debate as he never gives them the time to truly expand on the point and if they try he has a few jokes ready to stop any progress.

          It's not clever. He just truly does not understand or care much about politics overall.

          • Andrew Ward
            Andrew Ward  12 hours back

            Mate, the Socratic method of questioning is virtually dead. It's been killed by all the people who simply ignore the question you asked and answer an entirely different one. Bad faith debaters simply will not play this game with you. And as I've mentioned before, teaching people how to "win arguments" without ever mentioning whether they're, you know, right in the first place is not necessarily good for society.

            • sallyjrw jrw
              sallyjrw jrw  12 hours back

              Can you please do a video on Taylor Swift? She seems like a nice enough person but she has a lot of haters. I find some of her songs enjoyable but I don't consider myself "fanatical" about her so I don't understand the hate.

              • Allan Virgo
                Allan Virgo  13 hours back

                Join Kamala in the fight to UNITE and RESTORE our country ✊🏾✊🏿✊🏽✊🏾🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

                • Danish Massey
                  Danish Massey  13 hours back

                  Bro I would like to apply for hindi

                  • Askalu Tewelde
                    Askalu Tewelde  16 hours back

                    Hi there,

                    I can manage Tigrina and Amharic languages channel.
                    I’m interested to have to use my skill and share a knowledge.

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                    Askalu

                    • do noto
                      do noto  18 hours back

                      i have trouble because i am wrong a lot of the time. and i want to own up to it, but now i have the problem that when i am right, people dissmiss my opinion. does anyone know how to deal with this?

                      • wantin
                        wantin  20 hours back

                        Commenting the Socratic Method with how not to make enemies seems pretty hillarious.

                        • Francesco Salvatore
                          Francesco Salvatore  17 hours back

                          True. Probably more: "Don't look like a moron towards neutral outsider".

                          Hemlock (Socrates) and rope (Noah) still await everyone challenging reactionary beliefs from those who hate critical thought.

                      • Queen Che
                        Queen Che  20 hours back

                        Why i knew before the video starts that you will use that interview with that blonde chick 😂

                        • Mitchell Zegstroo
                          Mitchell Zegstroo  21 hours back

                          Can you do one on Raymond Reddington from The Blacklist?

                          • Sandra White
                            Sandra White  1 days back

                            It's called EQ

                            • Iyaya Ekita
                              Iyaya Ekita  1 days back

                              A method, a good one. There are many methods and some work better in various situations. I could learn from this. I will watch it several times to absorb it.

                              • Rhonda Bailey
                                Rhonda Bailey  1 days back

                                Trevor Noah for President ☮️🇺🇸

                                • Shushel Gr
                                  Shushel Gr  1 days back

                                  That's the exact reason I find Trevor Noah inadequate. I actually was really disappointed with this performance with Tomi Lahren

                                  • BossCat
                                    BossCat  1 days back

                                    Diminish.

                                    • Apollo Jr
                                      Apollo Jr  1 days back

                                      Pro advice: Dont even try to win it, simply back down.
                                      ;)

                                      • Chris Wellz
                                        Chris Wellz  2 days back

                                        A lot of assumptions here. Harder to take the video seriously when realizing that.

                                        • ReportTheHackers
                                          ReportTheHackers  2 days back

                                          I would avoid using but and instead use "yes, now..." Along with downward inflection chin down upward gaze. Works better to elicit thought and contemplation towards a new direction. Just a suggestion that has been helpful for me.

                                          • Rae Hughes
                                            Rae Hughes  2 days back

                                            Socrates method = Q :)

                                            • Ninjaslash52 _
                                              Ninjaslash52 _  2 days back

                                              Go ask a feminist 2 questions and they’ll start screaming at you

                                              • Bonnie Half-Elven
                                                Bonnie Half-Elven  2 days back

                                                Trevor not only successfully has a conversation instead of an argument with his guests, he also gets me to think about what I believe. His life experience is so different, his point of view is much more worldly.

                                                • jodi houts
                                                  jodi houts  2 days back

                                                  Releasing your need to be right....

                                                  • yves gerey
                                                    yves gerey  2 days back

                                                    Socrates: not making enemies with this one weird trick.
                                                    Athens: We sentence you to die.

                                                    • nayan kutwal
                                                      nayan kutwal  2 days back

                                                      @charismaoncommand pls do a video on how to participate in an open ended and close ended group discussion effectively to come across as a leader

                                                      • David Grunzweig
                                                        David Grunzweig  2 days back

                                                        Thanks for putting this perspective out there, keep up the good work.

                                                        • Looks Up
                                                          Looks Up  2 days back

                                                          I'm glad I found your channel, you've been very helpful and I've only seen a few of your videos. I'll probably watch the rest now. I'm happy to subscribe. 👍

                                                          • xXYourhunterXx
                                                            xXYourhunterXx  2 days back

                                                            You often can't calm someone down by cracking a joke, I mean it is possible for sure, however not how trevor does it mostly, which is often meant as ridicule

                                                            • Sho Yu Weeni
                                                              Sho Yu Weeni  3 days back

                                                              You don't need to be right to win an argument. You just have to be funnier than the other person, assuming close to equal amount of knowledge on the topic.

                                                              • Thomas Smith
                                                                Thomas Smith  3 days back

                                                                I was a bit turned off when he spelled diminish as deminish.

                                                                • Tima Nabhani
                                                                  Tima Nabhani  3 days back

                                                                  Really good content in this video i actually use many of those skill without realizing what they are and usually it works, however, i think its better to change the name to managing discussion or something similar

                                                                  • Jayde O
                                                                    Jayde O  3 days back

                                                                    Now I know why I really like him even though I don't agree with him on everything.

                                                                    • Jacob Friedman
                                                                      Jacob Friedman  3 days back

                                                                      You are assuming that Trevor argues in good faith.
                                                                      You are mistaken.

                                                                      • Porsche Abraham
                                                                        Porsche Abraham  3 days back

                                                                        ENTP support group

                                                                        • Helix Rune
                                                                          Helix Rune  3 days back

                                                                          I've liked all your other videos I've seen. But I think this one is completely wrong. As far as I can see TN isn't genuine, TN doesn't argue in good faith. At 3:05 the joke is not a good thing. It's destroying her argument without refuting her evidence or logic. He's in front of his home crowd and it's not even funny or cleaver. Making a joke out of something someone said ups the ante for a fight because it belittles the other person and their argument. I hate it when people do it to me, so I don't do it to them because I enter every discussion/argument with good intentions. I argue fairly. I argue in good faith.

                                                                          • David Michael
                                                                            David Michael  3 days back

                                                                            Thank you for this video,I'm going to try these and see how it affects my conversations.

                                                                            • Mekdes Abebe
                                                                              Mekdes Abebe  3 days back

                                                                              this should be how to be win an argument without crying lol

                                                                              • Oliwia Sitoi
                                                                                Oliwia Sitoi  3 days back

                                                                                "The religion is not a problem, these crazy people are"

                                                                                • Moshe Cohen
                                                                                  Moshe Cohen  3 days back

                                                                                  maybe in hebrew

                                                                                  • wilwad
                                                                                    wilwad  3 days back

                                                                                    Trevor and Tami should.

                                                                                    • Gorga Simbolon
                                                                                      Gorga Simbolon  3 days back

                                                                                      "Adjusting your beliefs doesn't deminish you." True, however misspelling "diminish" does diminish this video by a lot.

                                                                                      • Adam Braus
                                                                                        Adam Braus  3 days back

                                                                                        You know Socrates was put to death for arguing... hehe making enemies

                                                                                        • Jazmin Bautista
                                                                                          Jazmin Bautista  1 days back

                                                                                          But he ended up taking his own life and you're right. When you don't agree with someone else's opinion you create enemies.

                                                                                      • Michael A. Webermann
                                                                                        Michael A. Webermann  3 days back

                                                                                        This is the best video you've made in my opinion! Great job!!!

                                                                                        • Gabe Lee
                                                                                          Gabe Lee  3 days back

                                                                                          Very good insight. These are basic counseling skills that I use as a therapist in training and have found that they work very well in producing useful dialogue and opening others up to a different view point.

                                                                                          • ME 2
                                                                                            ME 2  3 days back

                                                                                            I'm so glad I clicked on here & found this site! Great work!-)

                                                                                            • Bart Fart
                                                                                              Bart Fart  3 days back

                                                                                              Socrates is the most famous philosopher if you are WHITE.
                                                                                              lol, Im so surprised I caught you.